How to Be an Inspiring Leader it’s Easy, and the Rewards are Great
It’s been a longstanding idea in business that emotions should be kept out of the workplace. Whatever’s going on in your personal life, you leave it at home so you can bring your most productive self to work.
But in a year when so many lines have become blurred — when a home has become work, and people are so exhausted they couldn’t possibly leave their personal experiences at the door — it’s clear that this old-fashioned idea can’t hold up much longer.
I think that what the world is calling for now is radically human leadership — leadership based on humility, on not just showing empathy but having empathy, on being vulnerable, on being authentic.
While it’s pretty obvious how leading this way would create a more enjoyable workplace for employees, it also leads to higher productivity and success.
People want to know that they’re part of something bigger than themselves,” he said. “They want to grow, they want to learn, they want to be loved, and they want to know what they do matters to somebody else. And research clearly shows that companies that do those things will outperform.
So, many of my colleagues have had to make many hard decisions as a company, like the layoffs that so many faced. They did it in the most humane way they could and made sure to be there for their employees along the way — and now are seeing business levels that have bounced fully back to normal.
If you’re used to keeping emotions at a distance in the workplace, learning to become a radically human leader can feel foreign. Here are a few ways to get started.
Begin with yourself
Being a radically human leader has to start with you.
I don’t think you can be a radically human leader unless you are radically human. That starts with looking in the mirror and candidly saying, ‘Where are my blind spots? Where are my strengths? What are my weaknesses?’
In particular, take a hard look at how you and your organization deal with failure. If failure is punished rather than encouraged, your employees may never feel comfortable opening up the things that are making it hard for them to do their jobs, meaning you’ll never have the opportunity to support them through it.
This also means modeling the behaviors you want to see in others and not being afraid to show up with vulnerability to demonstrate to your team that they’re free to do the same. This doesn’t mean dumping all of your troubles on your team, but not feeling like you always have to plaster on a happy face when you’re going through something tough.
Create space for connection
Of course, your employees aren’t just going to start suddenly opening up to you about their troubles, particularly if you haven’t had a culture of radically human leadership before.
Instead, start by connecting with your employees in smaller ways — asking about their weekends, families, and hobbies. Over time, this will make them feel comfortable sharing some of the harder things going on in their life.
In today’s virtual workplace, that also means being very purposeful about creating space for connection.
If anything, I’ve increased the amount of time I’ve spent just talking to my employees. When I do a Zoom call, never start with the topic at hand — I’ll try to make a connection with the people on the call first because it would have happened if we were in person.”
Show up even if you don’t have the answers
As a leader, there will be many situations where there’s no solution, no way to fix what’s going on.
The trick is to be humble enough to recognize that and still go out of your way to reach out to your employees and make sure they know you’re there for them.
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